State Wide Social
This wisdom seems like it could only be talking about procrastination, but it stands to reason: "what are we procrastinating about?"
Are we procrastinating against doing the good ordinary thing that repels us? Are we telling ourselves I am too anxious, it will feel strange, I just can't do it today, maybe I'll do it tomorrow?
When we do this, the next time we are faced with the good ordinary thing it will seem impossible. Our feelings won't lessen, they will get worse!
However, procrastination can be simple too. Having to write on this topic, I could say I don't feel like writing right now, maybe I will do it tonight or tomorrow? However, tonight after work it will seem that much harder to sit down to do some writing. Tomorrow, I will feel rushed to finish on time and will do a sloppy job.
Maybe we admitted we were inadequate or maladjusted to life but we are not ready to co-operate with help? As we get older, our inadequacies and maladjustments will just become more entrenched the longer we wait to do something about them and co-operate with help. We will tell ourselves later on in life that is "seems impossible" because we have lived with them for so long.
Maybe also we are procrastinating to fully surrender to God? We may feel like we still can do it alone? Often, one must hit their lowest points in life to fully surrender to God or one must go through trials and tribulations that they just cannot face on their own. However, just because this is what normally happens, doesn't mean we have to wait until that point.
In the Blue Book, and page 9 "The Supreme Healer" states: "He knows me better that I know myself; He has more control over my thoughts and feelings and actions than I have myself; He loves me better than I love myself; Therefore I will trust."
Are we letting our feelings tell us that we have to do it alone? That we know what is best? Remember that we are not acting alone, but co-operating with the invincible power of loving God and with trustworthy and friendly helpers... Don't you think it is about time to fully surrender your life to the perfect will of God and co-operate with the trustworthy and friendly helpers you have met in GROW? Can you really wait to put if off for another day?
We shared how our organization works, what problems we face, strategies and advice.
Brenda and Karen were greeted with love, hugs and enthusiasm when we walked up to the “Rainbow House”. This atmosphere continued throughout our visit. There were people from around the world (Korea, Japan, UK, Chile, México, Paraguay, etc.) who work in fields related with care (Doctors, nurses, psychologist, non-profits, social workers, parents, activist, etc.) Brenda gave her personal testimony, was asked question and thanked for her candidness. A history of GROW was presented. Then the floor was opened, many questions were asked and responded to.
It was a wonderful way to start our day! We hope to be invited back again and continue a relationship with the Gesundheit Institute and the School for Designing a Society.
Patch Adams www.patchadams.org/course/medical-elective/
The School for Designing a Society www.designingasociety.net
founded in 1869 as an outgrowth of the camp meeting movement and remains the longest-active camp meeting site in the United States. We were blessed to be able to hold the training in a gorgeous Victorian Retreat House, nestled in the middle of the peaceful Ocean Grove community.
All the GROWers arrived in the early afternoon of Monday the 9th and shortly afterwards, Caroline Meehan, the State Coordinator chaired our State Program Team meeting. John Barile was unanimously voted into the Organizer position for the Vineland NJ Day Group and so was Toya Edmeads-Wright for the Recorder position. We are very proud to have them on board and know they will be a true asset to GROW In New Jersey.
On Tuesday May 10th, the training officially begun. Earlier in the morning all of the GROWers were able to share a continental breakfast and continue to build those essential GROW friendships that are the backbone of the program.
Topics that were included in the training were The History and Overview of GROW, The GROW Program, The Group Method, The Role Of The Recorder, The Group Evaluation, The Role Of The Organizer and Sponsor, Leadership, The Caring and Sharing Community and of course, Friendship. Everyone did a wonderful job presenting their topics and many questions were brought up, allowing us to have an intensive study of each topic. All the GROWers were excited to learn the material and also to learn how to best apply it to their own groups. All in all, it was quite a success!
Training finished on May 11th and was followed by a fun and intimate social. Everyone brought plenty of food to share and we had a wonderful time. There was live music performed by John Karnish, a field worker and another GROWer who shared her extraordinary talents on the violin. I should add there were also a few GROWers that joined in playing percussion on “the spoons” from the kitchen! We were especially lucky that most of the Trenton NJ group was able to attend. They really went out of their way to attend, since they had to drive from the other side of the state! It was a wonderful experience to have them with us and many new friendships were made.
On May 12th all of the GROWers returned to their various parts of the State. GROW In New Jersey was able to get a group picture to commemorate this wonderful event and everyone one was able to donate some money to give a healthy tip to the staff at the retreat house to express our gratitude. Everyone is looking forward to next year!
I hope everyone is as excited as I am about our upcoming social at Crystal Lake Park in Urbana Il on May14, 2016 starting at 3:00pm. GROWers and their family & friends from around the state will come to together as a Caring and Sharing Community.
Relax in a friendly atmosphere that characterizes GROW Socials. After enjoying a meal at the park we will be “using our talents” by singing together, dancing, playing games and getting to know one another.
“A community is a plurality of persons, united by a common understanding and hope, growing together through love and mutual help to maturity, and destined (as they firmly believe) to abundant life.”
Help us raise funds for GROW In Illinois by donating your new or gently worn, and paired, used shoes! The Drive runs from March 1st - May 31st. Help us reach our goal of $3,000. We get $0.40 per pound of shoes, so we need your help.
PLEASE DONATE YOUR SHOES TODAY!
Contact your area fieldworker or call the Branch office at 1-888-741-GROW for drop off sites.
The first generation pioneers of our international GROW mental health movement have been gradually leaving us, first our founder, Con Keogh, in November 2011, and now Albert Lacey on November 2, 2014. Con and Albert may have left this earth, but they have hardly left us empty-handed. Con gifted us with a brilliant and practical mental health Program while Albert, his collaborator, left us with organizational and program structures that ensure team-work and prevent bureaucracy. As an experienced Australian lawyer (or “barrister”), Albert also designed the legal documents which define our GROW structures and give them legitimacy. If you wonder why we work through teams as we do, you can refer to some of our Policies and Procedures, also our By-Laws and Charter Agreements, all of which Albert designed. As Con wrote in “GROW Comes of Age,” Albert was indeed a designer and planner for the whole of GROW, but he was also a guide, philosopher and friend to Growers everywhere.
Thank you, Tanya Hicks, for being a presenter at the Region One Consumer Conference. She spoke on the importance of Music & Movement.
Bob Evans at 2708 DeYoung Street in Marion, Illinois will donate 15 % of sales to GROW in Illinois. Present the fundraiser flier when you have breakfast, lunch or dinner at the Marion Bob Evans on from . Flyers can be downloaded and printed from our website or contact the GROW Branch Center at 1-888-741-GROW. You must present the flyer when you dine at the Marion Illinois Bob Evans store.
GROW In America is holding their First Annual
CHRISTMAS GIFT SHOPPING DAY
WHEN: NOVEMBER 30TH
WHERE: KANKAKEE CIVIC AUDITORIUM
700 - 799 South Eighth Street, Kankakee, IL 60901
TIME: 8:00 AM TO 4:00 PM
PLENTY OF VENDORS:
NATIVE AMERICAN JEWELRY
PURE MAPLE SYRUP
AND MORE TO BE LISTED
Each vendor is donating a portion of their sales to
GROW In Illinois
P.O. Box 3667
Champaign, IL 61826